2490 chalal khaw-lal' a primitive root (Compare 2470); properly, to bore, i.e. (by implication) to wound, to dissolve; figuratively, to profane (a person, place or thing), to break (one's word), to begin (as if by an "opening wedge"); denom. (from 2485) to play (the flute):--begin (X men began), defile, X break, defile, X eat (as common things), X first, X gather the grape thereof, X take inheritance, pipe, player on instruments, pollute, (cast as) profane (self), prostitute, slay (slain), sorrow, stain, wound.
THE SELF IS A WICKED THING WITHIN US, WHICH THE WORLD CALLS A "SOUL."
Religious views on the self vary widely. The self is a complex and core subject in many forms of spirituality. In Western psychology, the concept of self comes from Sigmund Freud, Carl Jung, and Carl Rogers where the self is the inner critic.
Some Eastern philosophies reject the self as a delusion. In Buddhist psychology, the attachment to self is an illusion that serves as the main cause of suffering and unhappiness.
Romans 6:1-23 (PLEASE READ NOW). Explains to us how the self must be put on the altar of sacrifice so that it will die, and that we are no longer living for ourself but for Yahusha and the words of His Turah which must become our new behaviour. Many believers are not making the full transition, and are keeping behaviours of the world in their conduct. This causes great confusion, and is not a witness of the truth of the word. Those behaving a mixed conduct will be left knocking on the door, and will be punished.
Yahusha wants a genuine bride, one who is sold over to Him, and Yes their is a great difference in attitude and behaviour from the true believers, to those of "The disobedience." And NO we are not judging Turah says to discern the spirits. BECAUSE :
BUT KNOW THIS, THAT IN THE LAST DAYS HARD TIMES WILL COME, FOR MEN SHALL BE LOVERS OF SELF, LOVERS OF MONEY, BOASTERS, PROUD, BLASPHEMERS, DISOBEDIENT TO PARENTS, THANKLESS, WRONGDOERS, UNLOVING, UNFORGIVING, SLANDERERS WITHOUT CONTROL, FIERCE, HATERS OF GOOD, BETRAYERS, RECKLESS, PUFFED UP, LOVERS OF PLEASURE RATHER THAN LOVERS OF YAHUAH, HAVING A FORM OF REVERENCE BUT DENYING ITS POWER. AND TURN AWAY FROM THESE. (2 TIM 3:1-5.)
Now is Yahusha telling us to judge those with such behaviour, certainly not, but for us to observe such behaviour, He said to turn away from these, don't mix with them. So if we are in the company of such behaviour including those who say they are believers but have behaviours as that above, it is most dangerous for us. We have to die to such behaviour, our old self must die on the stake and share in the death of Messiah, so as he rose in newness we shall one day do the same. Yahusha hates wicked behaviours and this is the difference between His Real chosen.